Wednesday, 31 October 2018
PHOTOS: The 9th Annual Oktoberfest – Tampa
Check out our featured photos from The 9th Annual Oktoberfest – Tampa
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PHOTOS: 46th Annual Miss Florida F.I.
Check out our featured photos from the 46th Annual Miss Florida F.I. 
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PHOTOS: Around Tampa Bay with Amy Demilo
Check out our featured photos from Around Tampa Bay with Amy Demilo:
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WATCH: LGBT-Themed Films ‘Bohemian Rhapsody,’ ‘Boy Erased’ Hit Theaters
On this week’s episode, we give you all the details on Joel McHale live at the Palm Beach Improv, The 13th Annual Taste of the Island in Wilton Manors, La Boheme at Florida Grand Opera, Fort Lauderdale International Boat Show, Boyz II Men, Tracy Morgan live at Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino, and the Top 3 picks of the week.
Plus, don’t miss a very special interview with Peter Clark addressing the importance of your vote in this year’s midterm elections.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/31/watch-lgbt-themed-films-bohemian-rhapsody-boy-erased-hit-theaters/
WATCH: Get Out the Vote 2018 – An Interview with Peter Clark
Peter Clark sits down with host Shawn Palacious to discuss the importance of this year’s midterm elections and how your vote matters!
Get out and vote! This is how democracy works and you only have once chance per election cycle to have your voice heard. If you think that your vote won’t make a difference, just remember back to the 2016 election where a handful of votes turned critical states over to give Donald Trump the electoral college and the Presidency.
Remember Pulse Nightclub, remember the brave kids at Stoneman Douglas and remember the bombs that were mailed out from right here in our backyard. I long for the days when a heated conversation was over teachers’ wages, equality and health care. Bring back civility by voting on election day and have your voice heard for what matters to you. Sitting at home and doing nothing is not an option if you want to be the change you want to see.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/31/watch-get-out-the-vote-2018-an-interview-with-peter-clark/
Top 10 of the Week
BROADWAY – Rock of Ages
This Tenth Anniversary Tour is blazing across North America. Nominated for five Tony Awards, including Best Musical, ROCK OF AGES captures the iconic era that was the big bad 1980s Hollywood. Featuring the music of hit bands such as Styx, Poison, Twisted Sister, and Whitesnake.
Tues, November 6 through Sun, November 11; Kravis Center for the Performing Arts (701 Okeechobee Boulevard, West Palm Beach); Tic: start at $28; Kravis.org.
COMEDIAN – Joel McHale
Joel is one of the most sought after comedians and actors in the industry. He recently wrapped his twelfth and final season of E!’s The Soup in which he satirized pop culture and current events. He is also best known for his starring role on the hit comedy series “Community,” which wrapped its sixth season on Yahoo after five seasons on NBC. His new show, “The Great Indoors”, recently launched on CBS, and his new book “Thanks for the Money” was recently released.
Fri, November 2 and Sat, November 3; Palm Beach Improv (550 S Rosemary Ave. Suite 250, West Palm Beach) Tix: $35; PalmBeachImprov.com.
FOODIES – 13th Annual Taste of the Island
The “Taste of the Island” culinary event in Wilton Manors will feature more than 30 restaurants, breweries and eateries from south Florida’s tri-county region. This year’s “Taste” event offers guests to sample culinary delights and libations in a charming historic park setting. Trader Joe’s, Ethos Greek Bistro and Kelly’s Landing are just a few of the participating vendors. Free parking and shuttle service will be provided from the City Hall/Hagen Park lot
Mon, November 05; 6pm; Richardson Historic Park and Nature Preserve (1937 Wilton Drive
Wilton Manors); Tix in advance $35; Tasteoftheisland.org.
LA BOHEME – Florida Grand Opera
Experience Giacomo Puccini’s lyrical romantic tragedy of young lovers in the Latin Quarter of nineteenth century Paris. Will Mimì and Rodolfo find a way to make their love survive terrible poverty, the freezing winter, and Mimì’s life-threatening illness? Puccini’s magical melodies, including “Si, mi chiamano Mimì” and Musetta’s famous waltz, transform this tale of lovers living on borrowed time into a timeless classic.
Sat, November 3 – Sun, November 11; Adrienne Arsht Center for the Performing Arts (1300 Biscayne Blvd. Miami); Tix: starting at $25; www.FGO.org.
BOAT SHOW – Fort Lauderdale
Enjoy Fort Lauderdale’s waterways and sunshine while browsing an amazing array of boats, marine products and accessories at the 59th annual Fort Lauderdale International Boat Show, the world’s largest in-water boat show with more than 1,500 boats on display.
Thurs, November 01, through Sun, Nov 4; Bahia Mar Yachting Center (801 Seabreeze Blvd.
Fort Lauderdale); Tix: $33-$300, $15 (Children ages 6-15); Free for Children under 6; flibs.com.
COMEDIAN – Tracy Morgan
Tracy is best known for his seven seasons as a cast member on Saturday Night Live (1996–2003) and 30 Rock (2006–2013). He was nominated for an Emmy Award in 2009 for his work on 30 Rock. He has appeared in numerous films as an actor and doing Voice overs. He returns to South Florida for one night only.
Sat, November 3; 8pm; Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino in Hollywood (1 Seminole Way
Hollywood); Tix: $50, $60, and $70; Seminolehardrockhollywood.com.
FILMS – Fort Lauderdale Int’l Festival
This Festival (FLiFF), is a top destination event set at a time of year when South Florida weather is at its best, and is known for its relaxed, casual, fun, and friendly down-to-earth atmosphere. FLiFF rolls out more than 200 American Indie and foreign language films and hosts special guests with meet and greet gatherings and parties.
Fri, November 2 – Sun, November 18; various times, locations and prices: FLIFF.com.
FIESTA – IHeartRadio Latina 2018
This is always a fun concert filled with lots of talent, with this year includes: Marc Anthony, Pitbull, Nicky Jam, Steve Aoki, Farruko, Nacho, Becky G, Zion & Lennox, Manuel Turizo and Mau & Ricky!
Sat, November 3; 8pm; American Airlines Arena (601 Biscayne Boulevard, Miami); Tix: start at $29; AAArena.com.
BOY BAND – Boyz II Men
The award-winning R&B group of Nathan Morris, Wanya Morris and Shawn Stockman are known for their tight harmonies and emotional ballads. Their hits include “End of the Road,” “Motownphilly” and “I’ll Make Love to You.”
Sat, November 03; 9pm; Fontainebleau Hotel (4441 Collins Ave. Miami Beach); Tix: $65-$99; fontainebleau.com.
MOVIES – Bohemian Rhapsody & Boy Erased
Two incredible films come out this week for the LGBTQ community. Bahomeian Rhapsody (134 min Biography/Drama/Music) is a chronicle of the years leading up to Queen‘s legendary appearance at the Live Aid concert, and stars Rami Malek, Lucy Boynton, Joseph Mazzello, and Mike Myers. Boy Erased (114 min Biography/Drama) is about the son of a Baptist preacher who is forced to participate in a church-supported gay conversion program after being forcibly outed to his parents, and stars Lucas Hedges, Nicole Kidman, Joel Edgerton, and Russell Crowe .
Both premiere Friday, November 2.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/31/top-10-of-the-week-10/
Night of a 1,000 Chers at W Fort Lauderdale Photos
W Fort Lauderdale hosted Night of a 1,000 Chers with DJ Barry Harris spinning all night long. The event featured SoFL Chers such as Athena Dion, Franchesque Richards, Amanda Austin, Skye Becket, Johanna James and many more performing all night long. View the full gallery: Night of a 1,000 Chers at W Fort Lauderdale Photos
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SAVE’s 2018 Halloween Ball: Disco Photos
The 2018 SAVE Halloween Ball: Disco was held at the Olemberg Ballroom on Miami Beach. The event featured featured DJ Sushiman spinning all night long, plenty of hot costumes, and a costume contest. View the full gallery: SAVE’s 2018 Halloween Ball: Disco Photos
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/31/saves-2018-halloween-ball-disco-photos/
Tuesday, 30 October 2018
Your Most Successful Workouts: 5 Easy Steps
Every 3-4 months you should take some time out to evaluate your workouts. Strip down, weigh yourself, take your measurements, face the mirror and be honest. Whether you’re pleased with the results, or realize you’ve got work to do, forge ahead realizing you’ve got the potential to improve and redefine not only that physique, but your overall health as well! Here are five steps that are sure to produce superlative results.
Firstly, every fitness routine should follow a three-fold approach: weight training, cardio-vascular training, and good nutrition. Neglect any one of these and your success will be compromised. You can’t preserve muscle tissue and build new muscle without doing resistance training. Hit the weights at least 2 to 3 times a week, if not more. Doing regular cardio (3 to 4 times per week for 30 – 45 minutes) is the best way to improve the longevity of your cardio-vascular system. This will also rev up your metabolism and help you burn fat. Finally, you can lift tons of weights and run miles of cardio, but unless you eat wisely, all your hard work in the gym will yield diminished returns. Consume a hearty breakfast and eat less at night; eat smaller meals (5 – 6) every 2 to 3 hours throughout the day as opposed to 1 or 2 monster feedings; opt for high protein meals with healthy complex carbs, and less than 30 grams of fat per day.
Secondly, free weights are your best bet for building muscle. A barbell and a rack of dumbbells are all you need for an effective resistance training workout. Remember, nothing beats the squat, bench press, deadlift, and shoulder press with a barbell or dumbbells for building overall mass and strength.
Thirdly, take time to journal your workouts. Make a note of how much cardio you perform at each session. List exercises, sets, repetitions and the outcome of each weight training session. Be consistent and honest with your documentation and strive to improve at least a little with each workout.
Fourthly, never over-train and always maintain impeccable lifting form with each exercise. Keep workouts to under an hour of one or two intense lifts (squat, bench press, shoulder press, deadlift) and three or four assistance lifts (curls, side raises, triceps push-downs, etc.) in order to take advantage of hormonal surges of testosterone and human growth hormone. With each press, lift, or raise, maintain perfect form.
Fifthly, make sure to have fun and enjoy yourself! When you’re in the gym, vary your routine by trying new weight training exercises, jump on board new cardio machines, sign up for novel classes…anything, just keep it exciting and challenging. On days off from the gym, take your activities to the great outdoors by walking, swimming, or roller-blading.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/30/your-most-successful-workouts-5-easy-steps/
Trans Rights Are Human Rights
Being in middle school is tough. Your body is going through often mortifying changes: acne, body hair, growth spurts. Your hormones are raging. Kids are often relentlessly cruel to each other. You aren’t old enough to drive. Your parents are hopelessly lame.
Not to mention the active shooter drills you have to go through on a routine basis because the U.S. can’t get its shit together when it comes to guns. It’s revolting that protecting children from being slaughtered in math class is a partisan issue in this country and that Republicans are on the side of the guns. But that’s where we are.
Also a partisan issue in this country is how, or whether, to protect transgender students. (Spoiler alert: Republicans are not on the side of the students. Again.) You might remember that the Obama administration issued guidelines to schools that said, essentially, “Hey, transgender students are human beings so treat them accordingly.”
In many schools this wasn’t a big deal. And by big deal, I mean it wasn’t much of an adjustment. It was, however, a big deal for trans students. I mean, man, if the President of the United States had advocated for the protection of LGBTQ students when I was in high school that would have meant the world to me. It would have made a lot of LGBTQ kids feel less alone and also feel a little safer.
However, the guidance led to a bit of scrambling in some more conservatives places in the country where treating trans kids as human was a very foreign concept. Much hand-wringing was done over where trans kids should pee or change for gym.
And then came the Trump administration. And the guidelines for protecting trans students were scrapped. Trans kids went from a president who cared about them to one who was actively hostile.
And so the issue of where trans kids should pee or change was left up to individual schools to figure out however they wanted. And some schools are doing a really bad job.
Case in point: what happened at a Stafford County middle school in Virginia on Sept. 28.
On that day the school had an active shooter drill during which the teachers are charged with making sure students are sheltered in a designated area depending on where they are in the building. One of the places of safety at this middle school was the locker room. The boys went into the boys’ locker room and the girls went into the girls’ locker room.
Except for one girl in particular who wasn’t allowed in either locker room because she is transgender. According to multiple reports, the teachers didn’t know what to do with her and, after much debate, had the girl sit outside in the hallway, completely exposed to the attack that her other classmates were practicing how to survive.
Now, of course, it was only just a drill. It’s not like she was exposed to any real danger, right? Well, yes, technically. But the very point of a drill is to practice what you will do in the event of a real threat. And what was communicated to this young girl was, essentially, “You’re on your own.”
Now, you don’t need guidance from the federal government to tell you that there is no such thing as expendable children. But when guidance that acknowledges that trans students exist and affirms their right to be protected is issued only to be taken away, that is a pretty strong signal to trans students and the people who are supposed to teach, protect and learn with them that they are worthless.
GLSEN, an organization that works for safe and inclusive schools for LGBTQ students, just released its 2017 National School Climate Survey, which shows that “victimization of LGBTQ youth is not decreasing at rates previously seen — and has, in fact, gotten worse for transgender and gender nonconforming youth.”
And it won’t get better until we have elected officials in power who see LGBTQ youth as human beings. One of the best things you can do for LGBTQ people is to vote. Make a plan to vote on Nov. 6. Spend some time researching the candidates. Since hostility to LGBTQ people is part of the Republican platform, voting for Democrats is pretty much a no brainer, but knowing who you’re voting for when it comes to judges and other non-partisan offices is also important. A good resource is vote411.org.
If you’re thinking of sitting this election out, I urge you to think of that girl sitting alone in the hallway, imaginary bullets flying. Vote like her life depends on it. Because it does.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/30/trans-rights-are-human-rights/
Friday, 26 October 2018
WATCH: Athena Dion Talks Partying with Lindsay Lohan in Mykonos
The fabulous Athena Dion stops by the Hotspots Live! studio to dish on partying with Lindsay Lohan in Mykonos, the philanthropic endeavor Dream Queens, bringing Gay Pride to the world, raising money for the victims of Hurricane Michael and more!
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/25/watch-athena-dion-talks-partying-with-lindsay-lohan-in-mykonos/
Thursday, 25 October 2018
WATCH: Fantasy Fest, Wicked Manors 2018 & SAVE’s Annual Halloween Ball
Guest host Athena Dion stops by the studio to dish on the hottest cultural events, performances and live shows in South Florida.
On this week’s episode, we give you all the details on Hanson: Middle of Nowhere Tour 25th Anniversary, Alice in Chains, comedian Cathy Ladman live, Lindsey Buckingham live, Jerry Seinfeld live, An Evening with Colin Jost, and the Top 3 picks of the week.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/25/watch-fantasy-fest-wicked-manors-2018-saves-annual-halloween-ball/
XES Grand Opening in Wilton Manors Photos
XES is a new restaurant in Wilton Manors featuring art, food, drinks and music. They recently hosted their Grand Opening party on Wilton Drive. View the full gallery: XES Grand Opening in Wilton Manors Photos
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/25/xes-grand-opening-in-wilton-manors-photos/
Ten Tricks for Prizewinning Halloween Costumes
In anticipation of Halloween costume contests everywhere, here are 10 tricks for a prizewinning look from the queen of costumes herself, Miss Gay America 2019, Andora Te’tee.
1. Pick a simple concept and then be the best at it. Example: the devil. Be the best devil! You don’t want people wondering who you are supposed to be.
2. Make sure you don’t have anything blocking your mouth. That way nothing gets between you and your cocktail!
3. If you can’t glue it, don’t do it! Glue is the fastest way to make costumes. Yes that’s right girl, you don’t need a sewing machine to look good in Halloween drag!
4. If you make your shoulders bigger, your waist will look smaller. Say yaass! to shoulder pads and shoulder decorations.
5. Add lights. Tuck battery packs away into wigs hats or pockets. This extra element will make you the center of attention at the party.
6. Show off your best asset. Pick one: legs, ass, waist, or chest. It’s okay to be sexy or shocking, after all it’s Halloween!
7. Do contour. Do you know you can contour chest, six-packs, and cheek bones?
8. Yes Girl: Your shoes must match your costume! This can easily be done with glue, fabric pieces or spray paint.
9. Your costume must sparkle! Everybody’s eyes are drawn to sparkle. So bring the glitter and rhinestones.
10. Go big or go home. Halloween only happens once a year!
For more information on Miss Gay America, go to: Missgayamerica.com or missgayamericapageant.blogspot.com.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/25/10-tricks-for-a-prize-winning-halloween-costumes/
Boozy Cocktails: Signature Halloween Drinks
The only thing more important that your costume this Halloween is a killer signature cocktail! Bring the Halloween spirit to your haunted house with these spellbinding recipes featuring our favorite champagnes.
Whether you’re throwing a “bare-bones” get together, or a wicked Halloween bash, longtime supporter of the LGBTQ community, Barefoot has a variety of spooky cocktails that are sure to please all the goblins, witches and warlocks in your crew!
Sparkling Green Goblin – This ghoulishly delicious drink is made with Barefoot Brut Cuvee Champagne, Barefoot Moscato and a spiced apple cocktail mixer, garnished with a skewered grape and a drop of green food color. Find the full recipe here.
Hello Halloween Sparkler – This cocktail is made with Barefoot Sweet Red Champagne, pomegranate juice, pineapple juice, black cherry soda, and an orange and pineapple slice for garnish. To really bring out the Halloween spirit, add a few gummy worms! Find the full recipe here.
Spooky Spumante – This fruity, frozen concoction combines Barefoot Moscato Spumante Champagne, apricot nectar, pineapple juice and frozen mangoes. Complete the cocktail with a rim of purple sprinkles for the full spooky effect.
https://www.barefootwine.com/recipes/cocktail
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/25/boozy-cocktails-signature-halloween-drinks/
Q&A: Nicole Halliwell Talks ‘Hocus Pocus’ Live on Stage
The movie we all love this time of year, Hocus Pocus, is brought to life “Live on Stage” throughout Florida in October! Celebrating 5 years of this magical stage spectacle, I sat down with drag entertainer Nicole Halliwell, the show’s creator to discuss her cast, the tour, and why 25 years later, people still love Hocus Pocus.
What inspired you to produce Hocus Pocus Live?
Like pretty much everyone on the planet who loves Halloween, I am OBSESSED with this movie, it’s my #1 go-to for the entire season. I have a deep love of doing productions and theater shows – so I just had to do a tribute to such an iconic film!
It looks like you’ve chosen your cast very carefully.
Yes! I’ve been extremely lucky to know and work with these absolutely phenomenal people who put 110% into everything they do. Our show stars some incredible entertainers including Calypso Monroe, Nicky Monet, Walter Washburn, Kendall Carassco, Nicole Saphire, and Ava Monet. Wait till you see how much they look and act like the movie characters!
Tell me about last year.
Oh my god – amazing! We sold out all of our shows in minutes! Words cannot express how amazing all the love we received was. We finally broke ground in Orlando for 2017 thanks to the amazing people at Southern Nights and the lines were down the block… and we’re back to do it again this year!
What should we look forward to in your 2018 shows?
As this is our 5th anniversary – we’re proudly debuting an all-new extended show with new scenes, new effects, and so much more!
I heard you’ve been acknowledged by some of the actors in the film?
YES! Kathy Najimy (Mary Sanderson) and Doug Jones (Billy Butcherson) have shown us love via social media, praising the show and our characters. That was mind-blowing for us. Growing up watching this movie and having the actors appreciate your portrayal of them left us speechless!
Why do people love this movie so much?
Even after 25 years, it’s so synonymous with Halloween. Something about the magic of Bette, Kathy, and Sarah as a trio, and how well the story was cast and told like only Disney can. I can watch it 500 times and I’ll never get tired of it. It makes me happy to see so many new generations getting to experience and love this movie the way I do. A tradition for decades to come!
Where can we see Hocus Pocus Live on Stage?
We have 7 shows across 4 cities – Tampa (10/26), Orlando (10/27), West Palm Beach (10/30), and Fort Lauderdale (10/31)! All of the tour dates and information is available on our website! Check it out!
Catch the 23-minute live action version of Hocus Pocus for their Season Finale Wednesday, October 31st at 10PM (Free season finale show – no cover.) inside Southern Nights Fort Lauderdale – or visit the official website for more tour dates, tickets, and information at www.hocuspocuslive.net. Celebrity impersonators tribute show. No affiliation with the Walt Disney Company.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/25/qa-nicole-halliwell-talks-hocus-pocus-live-on-stage/
Q&A: Michael Goodman Talks Performing as Cher
A few years ago, I just knew Michael Goodman from his hugely successful PR Company: Goodman Public Relations. Little did I know that the quiet, organized and professional businessman had an alternate personality as a Cher impersonator! It’s amazing how Michael transforms himself with lavish costumes, fabulous wigs, and great shoes to become Cher! As he is about to give two local performances at Winterfest White Party on October 26 and W Fort Lauderdale’s Night of 1000 Chers on October 27, I thought this was the appropriate time to sit down with Michael and get all the info on how he became Cher!
When was the first time you were in drag?
I dabbled in drag for fun periodically from the mid 2000’s, but mostly on Halloween. However, when I became part of the Lips Fort Lauderdale family it blossomed.
When was the first time you did Cher?
It happened nearly six years ago as I was invited to a Las Vegas style party where you had to come as your favorite celebrity. I hired Diva (aka Thomas Mitchell) to create me as Cher, as that seemed the natural celebrity for me based on my facial features and my love for Cher.
How did it go at the party?
Everyone loved it and I was amazed that it was really me. The rest is history!
When was the first time you performed as Cher?
Not long after that party I took the stage at Lips which gave me my wings. I love my Lips family and till this day I perform there periodically.
How did you go about perfecting Cher?
I have been a huge Cher fan since I was a kid and followed every word and move she ever made. I take it very seriously. Plus, I am lucky to live in South Florida where there are so many great entertainers who I watched and learned from.
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When was the first time you got paid to be Cher?
My first paid gig was a Bridal Expo, and then my life changed when I met a great performer and make-up guru Kevin Wiley and got hired by Dan Gore as a cast member of Oscar’s Cabaret in Palm Springs which I enjoyed for two years.
What has been your favorite gig so far?
Working as Cher at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel and Casino is amazing as they give me the opportunity to do a full show (video, lights, dancers and great sound). The production is what I am all about. I love when I can add choreography and costume changes to give the full Cher effect!
Have you met Cher?
I had the pleasure of meeting Cher twice, but my first encounter was the most memorable, which landed me backstage at the American Music Awards during her first live performance of “Believe.”
What does the future hold for your second career as Cher?
I want to continue to perform with more elaborate costumes and even bigger productions. I would love to take the stage here more and abroad so there is definitely more to come!
To find out more about Michael Dean as Cher or to book him, go to: MichaelDeanasCher.com.
What People are saying about Michael as Cher:
“Doing events at the Seminole Hard Rock involves securing exciting and talented performers for our guests to enjoy. One of my favorites is Michael Dean as Cher. We usually have trouble convincing guests that he is not really Cher, they demand a meet and greet! His show is fun and professional. Michael takes us down memory lane through the various phases of the talent that is Cher. Magic!”
Susan Renneisen, VP Community Affairs and Special Events
Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Hollywood
“Michael Dean is a consummate professional. He is part of a niche business and its very important to hire not only talented performers of his caliber but also ones that can meet/greet and be relevant with your special guests. He is “Cher” and he delivers an authentic portrayal of her and also is extremely professional for your extreme VIPs.”
Dan Gore, Producer
Oscar’s Cabaret
“Michael Dean as Cher has truly been a tremendous asset for our annual fundraiser event, Cuisine For Art. The Art and Culture Center of Hollywood, like many other 501(c)(3) organizations, often struggles to raise money for annual general operations. After return appearances by Michael Dean as Cher as our featured entertainer, we have experienced a quantifiable increase in audience attendance and generosity. Michael Dean as Cher ensures a high energy entertainment highpoint!”
Joy A. Satterlee, APR
Executive Director, Art and Culture Center/Hollywood
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/25/qa-michael-goodman-talks-performing-as-cher/
Paul Feig Sells NBC on ‘Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist’
Paul Feig sells NBC on Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist
Paul Feig, the man from Bridesmaids, is moving into musical television. He just sold a singing-dancing dramedy to NBC called Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist. Co-created by Austin Winsberg (Jake in Progress) and not to be confused with the film Nick and Norah’s Infinite Playlist, the story concerns a young woman in her late 20s who is suddenly gifted with the ability to know the deepest desires of everyone around her. This is accomplished through music, somehow, and it sounds fairly delightful. Smash not withstanding – and frankly, that show was kind of weirdly cool but never got its due – NBC is responsible for a lot when it comes to the re-introduction of music into primetime network TV, so this seems like the right home for a show like this. Now, what would be truly extraordinary is a great non-corny cast and some good money poured into production and lots of people spontaneously dancing in the streets. You’ll have appointment television then and an audience of queer people keeping it in business.
Heterosexuals to invade Broadway
Remember the 2000 film Almost Famous? Remember how it was full of charming straight dude rock star characters you could actually like? The kind who were laid back and nice to teenage band groupies and who led Elton John sing-alongs on buses? Well, you have Cameron Crowe to thank for that one, and if the forthcoming Broadway musical version of this film is successful it will be a testament to his powers. There’s no casting news yet, but the project – the story of young Crowe-like music journalist on tour with an up-and-coming rock band – will feature a book by Crowe based on his Academy Award-winning screenplay, music by Pulitzer Prize and Tony Award winner Tom Kitt (Next to Normal) with lyrics by Kitt and Crowe, and directed by Jeremy Herrin (People, Places and Things).
We’re hopeful for this one, and not just because we’re looking forward to “Tiny Dancer” belted out by an ensemble cast. If the current political landscape has us soured on almost all heterosexual men, Crowe’s superpower is reminding us that they can be soulful and sensitive and as sexy as young Billy Crudup.
Romeo San Vicente does it his way all the time, darling.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/24/paul-feig-sells-nbc-on-zoeys-extraordinary-playlist/
OUTshine Film Festival Closes Out with 16 Films
Last Thursday was the opening night of the 10 year anniversary of Outshine Fort Lauderdale and they opened with the film Studio 54, which is an amazing Documentary with real footage, and current interviews of the people that made it the most iconic disco in history. After the movie, the Opening Night Party was at Middle River Manor. For those of you who have never been to this location, like I hadn’t, you are missing an incredible house in Middle River. With 4 or 5 bedrooms and around 8 bedrooms this mansion is amazing and is on the water. The opening party was a huge hit with delicious food, overflowing cocktails and packed with incredible people.
If you missed the opening Party, fret not, as there are two more you can attend. On Thursday, October 25, after the Centerpiece Movie, Girl, they will have the Center piece party at 8:30 pm at Savor Cinema (503 SE 6th St. Fort Lauderdale), and on Sunday, October 28, directly following the closing film, Boy Erased, they will feature the Closing Night Party and Awards at 8pm at RIVA Fort Lauderdale (1180 N Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale)
There are 16 more films showing the second weekend of the Film Festival. Below we highlight eight of them:
Girl – East Coast Premiere
Thursday October 25th 2018, 7:00 pm
Centerpiece Film
Fifteen-year-old Lara’s goal is clear: to become a professional ballerina. Supported by her father, she attends a prestigious dance school, dedicating herself to the grueling journey. But the frustrations and impatience of adolescence intensify as she gradually faces the daunting challenges classical ballet imposes on the body of girl born in a boy’s body. Winner of the Camera d’or and Prize of the Best Actor at this year’s Cannes Film Festival, Girl presents a fundamentally supportive environment for the protagonist while making clear the challenges she faces.
Friday October 26th 2018, 7:00 pm
Savor Cinema
Perhaps the most controversial photographer in American history, Robert Mapplethorpe’s work celebrated a range of subjects, from flowers to S&M. He electrified the contemporary art world and immortalized a generation ravaged by AIDS. From the early ’70s until his untimely death, the film explores the intersection of his art and his sexuality and his struggle for mainstream recognition, all in the face of the emerging AIDS crisis. Featuring Matt Smith (Doctor Who, The Crown) the biopic offers a nuanced portrait of an artist at the height of his craft and of the self-destructive impulses that threaten to undermine it all.
Friday October 26th 2018, 9:15 pm
The Classic Gateway Theatre
After having broken up with his boyfriend of 8 years and having his heart broken by his rebound guy, Rafael decided to get away and meet three friends in different countries: Julia in England, Fábio in Portugal and Mayara in Argentina. They all hold a special place in his life and will provide comfort and support he desperately needs at this time…..or will they? Loosely inspired by the filmmaker’s actual experiences and combining three countries, four exiles, and one broken heart, 45 Days Away From You is all true, is all fiction, and is wholly entertaining.
Friday October 26th 2018, 9:30 pm
Savor Cinema
Mario has fallen in love for the first time. Yet his new love is Leon, the team’s new striker, who could pose a threat to Mario’s chances of advancing his soccer career. Before long, their relationship is discovered by their team members and rumors begin to spread beyond the locker room. Mario realizes this jeopardizes his career as a professional football player, but he does not want to lose Leon at any price. He has to make a decision: does he risk his fame as a soccer star or does he lose the only man he has truly loved?
Saturday October 27th 2018, 12:30 pm
The Classic Gateway Theatre
Around 15,500 transgender people serve in the U.S. military where they must conceal their gender identity because military policies still discriminate. Transmilitary chronicles the lives of four of these individuals (Senior Airman Logan Ireland, Corporal Laila Villanueva, Captain Jennifer Peace & First Lieutenant El Cook) defending their country’s freedom while fighting for their own. They put their careers and their families’ livelihoods on the line by coming out as transgender to top brass officials in the Pentagon in hopes of attaining the equal right to serve.
Saturday October 27th 2018, 9:30 pm
The Classic Gateway Theatre
Genre: Drama, Gay, Historical Fiction
Tom (Tennessee) Williams, an aspiring writer in his 20s, lives with and negligent father (Vincent D’onofrio). Tom attempts to maintain peace in the family while also dealing with his depressed and anti-social sister. Struggling against the societal pressures and expectations of him, Tennessee is determined to hone in on his artistic talent and achieve greatness. Directed by James Franco, Tenn focuses on a young Tennessee Williams struggling to find his voice and at the same time his true self as a gay man in 1930’s St. Louis.
Sunday October 28th 2018, 12:45 pm
The Classic Gateway Theatre
The story of the groundbreaking life and work of 4-time Tony-winning playwright Terrence McNally: a personal journey through 5-decades of the American theatre, the struggle for LGBT rights, triumph over addiction, the power of the arts to shape society, and finding love and inspiration at all ages. At 78, Terrence is one of the world’s most renowned, risk-taking playwrights, but he wakes up every day with the spirit of an ambitious and romantic young man. It’s that attitude, mixed with a quiet courage that makes him one of the best American playwrights.
Sunday October 28th 2018, 6:00 pm
Closing Night Film
Savor Cinema
Boy Erased tells the story of Jared (Lucas Hedges), the son of a Baptist pastor in a small American town, who is outed to his parents (Nicole Kidman and Russel Crowe) at age 19. Jared is faced with an ultimatum: attend a gay conversion therapy program or be permanently exiled and shunned by his family, friends, and faith. Based on the best-selling novel, Boy Erased is the true story of one young man’s struggle to find himself while being forced to question every aspect of his identity. Beautifully written and superbly acted, this has Oscars written all over it.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/25/outshine-film-festival-closes-out-with-16-films/
Culturizate: David Wojnarowics
AIDS Is Not History’: ACT UP Members Protest the Whitney Museum’s David Wojnarowicz Show, Claiming It Ignores an Ongoing Crisis
(https://news.artnet.com/art-world/act-up-whitney-museum-david-wojnarowicz-1325891)
ART, SEX, and SURVIVAL
Adora: Wow, Teddy, ¿viste el estallido de la retrospectiva en el Whitney para el artista David Wojnarowicz? … Su trabajo es tan apasionado … en realidad se calló para protestar por el silencio oficial sobre la crisis del SIDA en el 1980, así que de alguna manera no estoy sorprendido.
Teddy: Sí, David murió de la espalda de AID en 1992; fue miembro fundador del grupo de activistas AID ACT-UP. Mucha gente se estaba muriendo, y realmente sufría. Nadie supo al principio cómo se transmitía, o cómo saber si se iba a enfermar. Fue un tiempo realmente basado en el miedo … Y al gobierno simplemente no pareció importarle.
Adora: La comunidad creativa, que es tan LGBTQ, fue la más afectada, por lo que artistas como David Wojnarowicz, Keith Haring y Robert Maplethorpe, no solo se enfermaron, estaban rodeados por toda una comunidad que estaba afligida. La gente le tenía miedo a las personas LGBTQ, al principio había poca compasión: todo era miedo.
Teddy Behr: Tienes que ver la película de David Wojnarowicz” A Fire In My Belly “para sentir realmente la muerte y la muerte que superó a la comunidad gay. Es un collage de películas realmente asombroso sobre el terror de la época y fue censurado en un show en DC hace unos 9 años … es bastante intenso.
Act-Up adoptó el eslogan “Silencio = Muerte”, y sí, David en realidad se cerró la boca como una protesta performativa sobre el silencio en los medios de comunicación y el gobierno sobre la devastadora cifra de muertos en la comunidad LGBTQ.
Adora: Nunca olvidaré la foto de él con la boca cerrada, o la película, y la música y la voz de Diamond Galas. Son imágenes icónicas de lo que estaba pasando entonces. Desafortunadamente, aunque las personas no se están muriendo como antes por el VIH / SIDA, los manifestantes tienen razón en que el SIDA no es historia: ahora tenemos una industria de SIDA, con todo tipo de tratamientos de mantenimiento muy costosos, pero no hay cura … me pregunto por qué no hay cura?
Teddy Behr: Sí, y Act-Up dice que todavía no tenemos suficiente acceso a las pruebas y al tratamiento, y sobre todo, a la educación. “¿El Condado de Dade no tiene la mayor incidencia de SIDA / SIDA en los Estados Unidos? Entiendo que a la gente no le gusta hablar de eso, pero como dicen en Act-Up: SILENCE = MUERTE.
Adora: Sí, y ahora también tenemos una epidemia de sífilis y nuevas cepas de gonorrea que requieren goteo de antibióticos, porque son resistentes a los antibióticos más antiguos. Es realmente peligroso: un amigo médico dice que el nuevo medicamento PREP, que protege a las personas contra el virus, hace que las personas sientan que ya no necesitan practicar sexo protegido / seguro. Él dice que estas cosas pueden mutar y cambiar, y que nos engañamos a nosotros mismos pensando que estamos fuera de peligro.
Teddy Behr: Mmmm … por un momento fue genial usar condones, ahora, creo que es genial no … pero SEGURO ES DULCE, es cariñoso, y es genial; la gente solo tiene que volver a estar a salvo, por el bien de todos .
Adora: Wow, Teddy, Did you see the blow-up over the retrospective at the Whitney for artist David Wojnarowicz?……His work is so passionate…he actually sewed his mouth shut to protest the official silence over the AIDs Crisis in the 1980’s, so in a way I’m not surprised.
Teddy: Yeah, David died of AID’s back in 1992; he was a founding member of the AIDs activist group ACT-UP. So many people were dying, and really suffering. Nobody knew at first how it was being transmitted, or how to know if you were going to get sick. It was a really fear-based time…And the government just didn’t seem to care.
Adora: The creative community which is so LGBTQ, was hit hardest, so artists like David Wojnarowicz, Keith Haring and Robert Maplethorpe, not only got sick, they were surrounded by a whole community that was afflicted. People were afraid of LGBTQ people, there was little compassion at first: it was all fear.
Teddy Behr: You have to see David Wojnarowicz’s film ‘A Fire In My Belly’ to really get the sense of death and dying that overcame the Gay Community. It’s a truly amazing film collage about the terror of the time and got censored out of a show in DC about 9 years ago…it’s pretty intense.
Act-Up adopted the slogan ‘Silence = Death’, and yeah, David actually sewed his mouth shut as a performative protest over the silence in media and government about the devastating death toll in the LGBTQ Community.
Adora: I’ll never forget the photo of him with his mouth sewn shut, or the movie, and the music and vocals by Diamond Galas. They’re iconic images of what was going on then. Unfortunately, even though people aren’t dying as they used to from HIV / AIDs, the demonstrators are right that AIDs isn’t history: we now have an AIDs industry, with all sorts of very expensive maintenance treatments, but no cure…I wonder why no cure?
Teddy Behr: Yeah, and Act-Up says we still don t have enough access to testing and treatment, and above all, education. Doesn’t Dade County have the highest AIDs/HIV incidence in the USA?I get that people don t like to talk about it, but as they say in Act-Up: SILENCE =DEATH.
Adora: Yes, and now we’re also having a syphilis epidemic, and new strains of gonorrhea that require antibiotic drip, because they’re resistant to older antibiotics. It’s really dangerous out there: a doctor friend says the new PREP medication, which protects people against getting the virus has made people feel they don’t need to practice protected/safer sex anymore. He says these things can mutate and change, and that we’re fooling ourselves thinking we’re out of danger.
Teddy Behr: Mmmmm…for a while it was cool to use condoms, now, I think it’s cool not to…but SAFE IS SWEET, it’s caring, and it IS cool; people just have to get back to safe, for everybody’s sake.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/24/culturizate-david-wojnarowics/
Six Ways to Experience Fall’s Magnificent Foliage
Experience Mother Nature’s majesty with these make-a-weekend-out-of-it ways to view stunning displays of fall foliage like never before.
- Cross-country rail trip
When I read about how blogger Derek Low booked himself a cross-country Amtrak trip from San Francisco to New York for $187, I was skeptical. So I reached out to Low – who now helps people like you and me book their own excursions for a $49 consulting fee (he basically does all the work for you) – and it’s legit, folks. My trip, which departed October 1 from New York’s Penn Station, cost about $450 total with overnight stops in Chicago, Denver, and Salt Lake City along the way. You can still take the 3,400-mile journey for around $200 – where you’ll see the brilliant reds, oranges, and yellows of fall from coast to coast from your cozy coach seat (how many people can say they’ve done that?) – but the lower price is dependent on when you’re traveling and includes no stopovers. I personally recommend spending the extra cash to get off the train and spend a couple days in the scheduled cities. Steamworks Baths in Chicago is a great place to unwind after the first 18-hour leg.
- CityPASS
Aside from being one of the best ways for new and local tourists of an area to enjoy that destination’s main attractions, CityPASS also provides a unique way to encounter exceptional autumn vistas. For instance, you can elevator up to Top of the Rock Observation Deck in midtown Manhattan to peer out over Central Park – the pinnacle of municipal foliage – as burnt color covers the entirety of the green space’s 51 blocks. CityPASS is available in a dozen other cities throughout North America, most of which include opportunities to visit their tallest structures for 360-degree views.
- LGBTQ camps and wooded resorts
If camping is up your alley, plan a trip to one of the many LGBTQ-focused or gender-exclusive grounds where you can pitch a tent (literally and figuratively) or rent a cabin for a weekend in the great outdoors. There are 19 states across America that offer a gay camping experience, information for which is available on GayCampingUSA.com, where you can make friends over fires, participate in traditional camp activities, and take leisurely hikes around the campuses or nearby trails to get up close and personal with fall foliage’s last hurrah.
- Helicopter and hot-air balloon rides
If you’re a risk taker and adventure lover, consider lifting off to cover grand expanses of changing leaves via helicopter or hot-air balloon. While many areas (especially those in proximity to major cities) offer helicopter rides, hot-air balloon rides are scarcer, but you can find both – and save money – by searching Groupon and other daily-deal sites wherever you are. You may have to drive a bit to get to the launch locations – hot-air balloons are usually in rural areas – but it’ll be worth the road trip and photo memories that’ll awe all your followers on Instagram.
- Hiking state and national parks
Head into any of the state and national parks (by car or on foot) that include forestland in a seasonal climate to surround yourself with reach-out-and-touch-it foliage. If you’re crafty, take some of it home with you and DIY a project like leaf napkin rings for your Thanksgiving tablescape, an autumnal welcome sign for your front door, or 28 other fun ideas from Country Living’s “30 Gorgeous Ways to Craft Fall Leaves.” Great for neighborly gifting, too.
- Road trip
My boyfriend and I are big on road trips, especially in the fall, because we’re both keen on local outdoor festivals, fresh markets and orchards, and anything made from harvest fruits like apple and pumpkin. Recently we spent a weekend discovering south Jersey – because who knew it was so quaint and rural? – driving from cute town to even cuter town (you’ll absolutely love Mullica Hill), popping into small shops, tasting beers at craft breweries, eating our weight in donuts from Amish markets, attending a rodeo, and joining festivities, like the Smooch-a-Pooch event we happened upon at the Human Village Brewing Co. in Pitman, N.J., to save the lives of three puppies with holes in the hearts. Of course we smooched all the pooches and enjoyed our drives on county back roads where the trees were just on the cusp of changing. Doesn’t get more romantic than that.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/24/six-ways-to-experience-falls-magnificent-foliage/
Community Celebrates Pompano Bill
Pompano Bill
1926 – 2018
Like so many other, I was deeply affected when I heard that Pompano Bill had passed away. At first, I went into a deep silence and just wanted to be alone to collect my thoughts. A sense of calm overcame me as I thought that Bill had just ended a spectacular journey we call life on earth. Bill and I often talked about our community, politics and of course, gossip. One thing is certain, I came to trust him like a father. In our last conversation he shared with me the fact that he decided not to undergo Chemotherapy while in the hospital. I refused to consider that he was telling me his time had come. Denial, as you know, is one of the first phases of dealing with grief. Ironically, as I checked my last email to him regarding Hotspots business, the subject line was “time to relax.” God knows, I did not want him to take it literally by going to his eternal resting place.
William Calcaterra, aka Pompano Bill, was born on January 12th, 1926 in Norway, Michigan. He had a normal childhood, however, as he matured, he realized that he was different. Back then the word gay wasn’t used, instead the word was “queer.” Growing up in such a small town of 3,728 people, he kept his difference suppressed.
He graduated high school in June of 1944 and was immediately inducted into the Navy, attended Radio Operator School in Madison, Wisconsin and was assigned to a ship in the Pacific Theatre. World War II ended and he returned to the U.S.
While still on active duty and stationed in San Francisco he stumbled into a bar on Market Street, not realizing it was a bar frequented by homosexuals, and was invited out for cocktails at the Saint Francis Hotel and treated to a weekend of fun and luxury. He saw that gentleman again during the week. Although he said the experience was amazing, shortly afterwards he got his discharge papers and returned home, where he again went into suppressing his desires. A year later, with the GI Bill, he went to Ferris State College and then moved to Detroit and completed his education at the Detroit Institute of Technology. It was in Detroit that he really discovered gay life.
While in Detroit he had his first relationship, which ended due to his partner being drafted for the Korean War. After graduating from college, he joined IBM (which Bill says stands for I’ve been moved) in 1951, where he stayed until retirement 36 years later in 1987. During his employment at IBM he made his way up to middle management and was transferred to many places throughout the country.
Eventually, Bill had the good sense to move to the Florida. After a few years he became bored and bought a camera. In 1992 he started his second career as a photographer and was published as Pompano Bill in Scoop Magazine. Since then he has worked for Outlook, Buzz, 411, Express, The Blade and, for the last dozen years or so he was very happy shooting exclusively for Hotspots Magazine. Over the years he has accumulated tens of thousands of pictures, which have become his life, he says they are like his friends. He had all his old photos organized in shoe boxes and digital images were stored on 2 computers. He often wondered what the stories were behind some of the people he captured on film when he looked back at them. As many of you know, Pompano Bill had a huge heart and donated much of his time to charities including Poverello, Tuesdays Angels, Broward House, The Pride Center and so many others.
Scott Holland once asked Pompano Bill: What are the benefits of living longer?
Bill replied: “You can teach an old dog new tricks, outliving a few assholes, the ability to meet and enjoy younger people…especially those that like to hear about gay history that I experienced.”
A CELEBRATION OF LIFE
Many have asked if funeral or memorial services will be taking place. One of Bill’s closest friends, Toni Barone, reminded me that he did not want anything special or grandiose after his passing. It is our understanding that a few family members will be arriving to discuss plans and we will announce the outcome of their decision the moment it happens. One thing is certain, if a celebration of life takes place, it will be one to remember!
Now, I find myself trying to fill yet, another hole in my heart…
A special thanks goes to Scott Holland for contributing the biographical content of this article
From a Grateful Community
Last week, our community lost an icon and friend. Bill touch many lives over the decades as he served our community, not only as a photographer but as a mentor and friend to many. With so many condolences still pouring in, we thought the best way to communicate our feelings just was to capture a few comments that capture the essence of a man who was loved and admired by so many:
Brad Casey: Dear Friend
It has been a day of reflection on my 27 year of friendship and association with Bill Calcaterra, Pompano Bill. It’s been a difficult day but I am at peace with his passing. Both Pompano and I knew his day of crossing the Rainbow were near. He was tired of fighting Cancer and loosing his eyesight. He now can see clearly and can rest. Thank You Pompano Bill for an amazing 27 years.
Richard Gray: Greater Fort Lauderdale CVB
He was an amazing man with an incredible zest for life.
Michael Goodman: Public Relations
He was so much a part of our community. I have very fond memories of him. He left his mark.
Billy Sand: Friend
R I P. Will always love him
Stephen R. Lang: Co-worker and dear friend
I don’t know what exactly to say and I have loved this man since the second time I met him. [The first time he did his groping thing.] We have had a wild ride standing next to and he ALWAYS looked out for me and making sure I was getting my shots and doing my job. I remember one of his BIGGEST warning about nightclubs was the smoke and how he got some sort of Cancer from it. He was a Trooper and loved my many–including myself. Una famiglia italiana e un dono di Dio.
Michael Albetta: Broward Sherriff Community Liaison
Memories captured from my dear good friend who now rests in Heaven, William “Bill” Calcaterra aka POMPANO BILL.. Our beloved LGBT community will miss him more than we think. Let’s honor one last request from Pompano Bill: GET OUT TO VOTE AND VOTE DEMOCRATIC!
Jose Javier: Friend
I think every gay man in South Florida has a picture taken by him. I never got a chance to have a long conversation with him, but the short chat after he had taken a picture where always nice. Will be missed. Rest in peace Pompano Bill Calcaterra.
Mike Trottier: Co-worker and dear friend
Pompano Bill…You can rest now my friend. Miss you already Peanut Butter!
Row lliescu: Equality Florida
Don’t be sad! Of course, we will miss you, Pompano Bill—but what a life you lived–an example to all of us to seize the day and make the most of every situation–or so it seemed. Indeed, the place won’t be the same without you, but it’s immeasurably better because of you. I look forward to celebrating your life with the throngs who adored you.
Steven Walker: Friend
I was in two of his photos in Hotspots Magazine. One all dressed up at The Opera Broward Center, the other less put together in the pool at Inn Leather-tee hee!
Ken Evans: Our Fund
Sad to learn of the passing of Pompano Bill. A wonderful friend to so many of us in the LGBTQ community. I don’t think I’ve ever seen Bill without a smile or his camera ready to take that perfect shot. He will be greatly missed by our community. Thank you for all the memories Pompano…Rest In Peace good friend.
Howard Andrew: Talent Scout
I found myself driving to Pompanos Bills house today, and sitting in the car outside of his home. Shaking my head for not stopping by earlier, and for always saying I’ll stop by tomorrow I’ll stop by tomorrow I’ll stop by tomorrow. We’ll, tomorrow has come and Bill has gone. Don’t wait to see friends and loved ones…. Don’t miss the chance to tell someone you love them. Life is short….. Rip Bill
Robin Bodiford: Attorney
I loved Pompano Bill. He had such a wonderful vibe and over the years such a big part of our community and also chronicled our community.
Kevin Clevenger, Poverello
Rest in peace Pompano Bill
Kenneth Flood: The Pub
So sad to hear of the passing of Pompano Bill Calcaterra. I have known this man pretty much since day one when I first moved to Fort Lauderdale. He was such a kind wonderful man. He always greeted me with a Hug & a Kiss(or three,LOL). I am saddened by the loss of this man, a treasure, R.I.P. my friend.
Daniel Curtis: Friend
I’m celebrating the life of my friend Mr Pompano Bill Calcaterra.
The Snapchat & Instagram of his time from the Golden Cost to the Golf Cost South Florida has been best pictured by you!
I’ll lend you my ear anytime! Thank you for for your gifts the smiles & magic in our memories! You’re having a great time in the afterlife this I’m sure!
Salute and cheers my friend…
Jim Libonati: Friend and former Hotspots Executive
I miss him very much; like others we had a great history as friends, and he was once my neighbor back in the late 80’s… RIP My dear Friend!
Gary Resnick: Mayor, Wilton Manors
“Our community has lost an Icon and a loving man who gave so much to so many”
Toni Barone: Close Friend, Community Leader
“How do you say goodbye to such an Icon? Our community will come together and heal but right now, we are still coming to terms with our loss.
Steve and Zak: Owners of Ramrod
We grieve the sudden loss of a long-time community member and dear friend
Michael Murphy: Photographer
I’m not sure how to express my love for Pompano, my own shortened nickname, in a paragraph. Over 25 years of sharing great images with one another, playfully bumping each other while shooting, comparing butts and bulges and yes telling secrets. I’m grateful that he had the best life, surrounded by so many people that loved him and that he loved even more. Many of us forget that when he was young and gay, he couldn’t be out.
So, his last 25 years, the 25 I got to enjoy alongside of him, truly were his Golden Years and he lived every minute to the fullest! I love you Pompano!
Watch for next week’s edition of Hotspots for a special photographic retrospective of Pompano Bill’s life and legacy.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/25/community-celebrates-pompano-bill/
Wednesday, 24 October 2018
What’s Hot South Florida: Oct. 26 – Oct. 31
Friday, October 26
AIDS Healthcare Foundation presents the SAVE’s 24th annual Halloween Ball: Disco, which will be a dark and decadent disco fantasy with a costume contest. Taking place at the Olemberg Ballroom (corner of 17th street and Lennox Avenue) on South Beach and starring Celebrity DJ Pam Ann as well as DJ’s Alex Ramos, Sushiman and Bill James with performances by Athena Dion, Tiffany Fantasia, TP Lords, Tlo Ivy, Fantasia Royale, and Miss Florida F.I. at Large Noel Leon. The costume contest is at Midnight with $1,000 in cash and prizes. The party is from 9pm to 2am and features a full open bar. Tickets are only $75 with promo code “Hotspots” at SaveHalloweenBall.org.
Twist presents a Halloween Kickoff event starring DJ Power Infiniti.
Saturday, October 27
W Fort Lauderdale presents “Night of 1,000 Cher’s: the Ultimate Icon Tribute” from 9pm to 12am. The night will feature performances by Michael Dean as Cher, and stars official Cher remixer DJ Barry Harris. They also invite you to: get Cher’s look at their Spa Glam Bar; and dress up in your Cher look and win prizes for Best Decade Look & Best Tour Look. In addition, there will be Cher concert ticket giveaways every hour. This is a 21+ event and admission is complimentary if you RSVP at: 1000Chers.eventbrite.com.
The House of Alibi presents “Black Halloween” starring DJ AJ Reddy and a costume contest where the theme is leather (preferred but not a must) with $600 cash prizes.
Venetian Arts Society and RBC Wealth Management present “An Intimate Evening with Levi Kreis” a benefit performance for ArtsUnited. The TONY Award winning Actor/Singer will appear in concert at 8 p.m. at the Sunshine Cathedral, (1480 SW 9th Avenue, Fort Lauderdale). Tickets are $35, general admission and is $50 which includes a meet and greet with Levi after the performance.
Twist presents the official after party for “Werq The World Tour.”
Noche Latina Saturday’s Inside the Ivy Dance Room and Patio, at the Manor Complex will be celebrating Halloween with the theme “Dia De Los Muertos” (Day of the Dead). The night will star Erika Norell and Lana Novva Lanudde along with guest DJ Ricardo Torres and sexy Latin Go-Go papi’s. In the Ballroom they feature a Pre-Halloween Block Party Bash starring DJ Binho Uckermann with a $1,000 (cash and Prizes) costume contest. Saturdays at the Manor is from 11pm to 4 am and feature NO COVER before midnight (FL Res) and only $7 for members after midnight and $10 for non-members (18-20 – $12 all night).
Sunday, October 28
The Pub presents Lady Fancy’s Gospel Jubilee, which is a church of a different kind and features good old fashioned Southern Gospel music at 7 pm. At 9pm they presents Battle of the Witches, Halloween edition with Sherry Vine & Jackie Beat who will battle it out in no holds barred, down and dirty anything goes skirmish that can be dutifully sick and twisted.
Wednesday, October 31 (Halloween)
Once again, The Pride Center at Equality Park in association with Hunters Nightclub present Wicked Manors, with this year’s theme: Game Night. The event takes place in the heart of Wilton Manors on Wilton Drive and goes from 6pm to 11pm and will star Miss Bryan and Kimmy B from Hits 97.3 and Misty Eyez. There will be music, DJ’s, Entertainment and lots of costume contests with the grand prize of $1,000 in cash and prizes. This event is free, but there is a $5 suggested donation.
The Ramrod presents their yearly Halloween contest at 12:30am with 2 winning categories: Best Costume and Butchest.
Electra hosts The Pub’s Halloween party and contest with $700 in cash and prizes at 11:30pm.
Rumors presents: Mario Party Halloween, starring DJ Joshua Atom, and shows by Alandra Matthews, Chyna Hilton, Efrain Reyes and Vauz Allen along with a $500 Costume Contest at 10pm.
Georgie’s Alibi/Monkey Bar presents “Dungeons and Dragons: Gods and Gladiators,” an indoor/outdoor party with a costume contest with $1,000 in cash and prizes.
Scandals Saloon presents a Halloween Ball from 5pm to midnight with a costume contest that will feature $400 in cash to the winner, $100 Gift Card for second place and a $50 bar tab for 3rd place.
Hot Stuff
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source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/24/whats-hot-south-florida-oct-26-oct-31-2/
Three’s a Crowd / Naughty Thoughts
Dear Andreus,
I have dear friends, and they are a couple. Recently one of them made advances towards me and I didn’t know how to react. In all honesty, I find him so f*cking hot, but I felt bad even listening to naughty things he said in his advances. His partner is my friend, and though we are not super close, I don’t know what to do. Part of me wants to tell my friend out of loyalty. The other part of me wants to pounce on him and just go for it. I am so torn…
Sincerely,
Naughty Thoughts
Dear Naughty Thoughts,
Whether or not you tell your friend that his boyfriend made advances towards you is your prerogative. But put yourself in your friend’s shoes. Would you want any of your friends doing anything with your boyfriend? Here you have to be the adult. Put his boyfriend in his place. Tell him that it is inappropriate, and that you have respect for you friend. I myself, always abide by something called the “Friend-Code.” I have established with my friends that we do not date, sleep with, or flirt with each other’s boyfriends, current interests, or exes. Acting on something like this can’t turn out well. Okay, so you might get the f*ck of your life, but is it worth it at the expense of a friendship? It’s up to you to either RIDE or RUN!!
Dear Andreus,
Recently on a night out on the Drive, my boyfriend and I both got kinda drunk. We met a really hot guy, and for the first time ever, we took someone home. It was great! The sex was amazing and I had a lot of fun. The next day, after the guy left, my boyfriend told me that he was uncomfortable and that he never wants to do that again. Now the problem is that I liked it, and I want to do it again. I don’t want my boyfriend to feel as if I am not into him anymore or anything like that, I just like the thrill of the new experience. I don’t wanna do it all the time, just every now and then. But he told me that he only wants sex to be between us. How can I address this without causing waves?
Sincerely,
Three’s A Crowd,
Dear Three’s A Crowd,
Well, clearly, Pandora’s Box has already been opened. Now you have to deal with the TRUTH. I know that you say that everything is fine with you and your boyfriend, but reaching outside is usually a sign that either something is lacking, or that you maybe have gotten bored. How much do you love him? What more do you want in your sex life? Is there anything that you can change so spice things up? Honestly, if you two can come to a way to improve your own sex life without stepping out or involving another party, from the sounds of it, that is the best solution. Clearly this guy loves you, and the idea of sharing you with someone else is too much. So I would leave things as they are, don’t poke the bear. Because pushing something as delicate at this, can turn a wave into a tsunami. And we all know how destructive those are.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/24/threes-a-crowd-naughty-thoughts/
GFLGLCC’s October Mixer at W Fort Lauderdale Photos
The GFLGLCC hosted their October 2018 mixer at the W Fort Lauderdale on Fort Lauderdale Beach. View the full gallery: GFLGLCC’s October Mixer at W Fort Lauderdale Photos
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Bad Habits that Make You Fat
On the average, most guys gain between one and two pounds per year. While this might not sound alarming, think about the 10-20 pounds you could pack on over a decade! Maintaining a healthy diet and exercise program can certainly help you win the battle of the bulge with all its harmful ramifications. Yet there are certain bad habits that you need to avoid if you want to stick to a healthy weight. Do any of these behaviors sound familiar?
Skipping breakfast is a recipe for slowing down your metabolism and packing on the pounds. You may not feel hungry in the morning, too rushed and busy for a healthy breakfast, but you’ll pay a heavy price. Depriving yourself of this first important meal will cause your energy level to sag and sink early in the day. In addition, your body, already in a catabolic state, begins to store fat more readily. Something, anything in the morning is better than nothing. Ideally, shoot for a breakfast that is 3- parts low glycemic index complex carbs, 2 parts protein, and one- part unsaturated fat. Whole grain cereals and English muffins with almond butter, fresh fruit, turkey sausage or chicken breast and Greek yogurt are wise and delicious choices.
Eating a heavy supper too close to bedtime will slow digestion and hamper your sleep. Make sure your last meal of the day is about 2 hours before you retire. Avoid fried foods with their excess calories that you’ll never burn off. Instead try steamed, grilled or baked meals for lunch and supper. Spicy foods may spike your metabolism, but you should avoid them at night since they’re liable to cause indigestion or acid reflux. As for carbohydrates, it’s best to consume these earlier in the day when you’ve got the time to burn them off working out and running errands.
Eating dessert at night is one guilty pleasure that can get you into trouble quickly. The flour and sugar in cookies, cakes, and pies are transformed into fat cells overnight as you hit the sack. If you’ve got to have a sweet treat before bed, try fresh fruit in moderation or a filling fruit smoothie.
Drinking caffeinated beverages or alcohol can have a negative effect on your sleep and add unwanted calories in your diet. Initially a cup of coffee may give you a lift and a cocktail may relax you, but excessive amounts of caffeine can wreak havoc on sleep patterns and alcohol contains useless extra calories that are turned to fat easily and rapidly. Instead try a cup of warm milk or herbal tea, or a natural fruit smoothie in the evening before retiring.
Besides the bad habits mentioned above, here are a few more that you need to keep in check. Grazing while watching television is a form of mindless eating that can result in lots of extra pounds quickly. Always measure out portions when you’re snacking and never eat directly out of bags or containers.
source https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2018/10/24/bad-habits-that-make-you-fat/